I have been thinking A LOT about Gary Lamb's post Allow Me to Rant. This so nailed it on the money of why Meadow is so different from every other church in our area. Now, keep in mind I said "different" not "better".
It is in our DNA to not be a cool, cutting-edge, contemporary church that appeals to the preferences and desires of the Christian looking for a cool, cutting-edge, contemporary church. It is in our DNA to be a church that understands, connects with, and gets real serious, intentional, and aggressive in reaching the person who does not have a personal and refreshing relationship with Jesus.
And I will be flat out honest and say a lot of people have left Meadow - good people - because of this difference. There is not a week that goes by that I don't see someone in the store or around town who "used" to go to Meadow and now goes to another church - usually a cool, cutting-edge, contemporary church that has a great ministry to Christians.
Our programming is determined by our DNA. Our music is determined by this. Our marketing is determined by this. Our messages are determined by this. What we do, when we do it, how often we do it, why we do it ... is determined by this.
For example...when you come to Meadow - you will be clearly challenged to change your behavior to line up with the teaching of Jesus. You won't hear a bunch of stuff you can pack in your brain so you can pass the "Are You Smarter Than The Average Christian" test. You will hear a simple message - probably with ONE focus point (not 3 or 5 or 10 points that you will forget before you walk out the door).
You will be seriously challenged to:
- Make it a top priority to invest and engage in relationships with people who are far from God. And invite them to Meadow.
- Serve the church and the community in ministry - not just come and sit.
- Be in a small group where you will be held accountable in how you apply God's truth in your family, your work, your marriage, your relationships.
- Make Sunday services top priority because that is THE KEY single time each week when more disconnected people come looking for genuine love and acceptance and trying to make sense of God.
- Give God your very best and the very first of your time, your money, and your energy.
When you come to Meadow, you might meet:
- Couples who are living together
- Men and women who are on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th marriages
- Men and women who smell of alcohol
- Teenagers struggling with eating disorders
- Adults and teens involved in a homosexual lifestyle
- Men and women who don't believe in God and question His existence
- People who are negative toward the church because of a past experience
- Blended families that have come out of messy divorces that still create problems
And let me be very clear ... all of these people and their friends are welcome at Meadow. We want them here. We want them to feel free to explore Christ, discover Christ, begin a relationship with Christ, and align their lives up with His refreshing (not boring or heavy) teachings. We want them to discover that life with Jesus is better than any other life imaginable.
Again...this does not make us better - just different.